Good grace, this is a really special, tender and loving story. To such an exceptionally loving and intimate request from such a couple I could only answer in one way, and no I do not need time to think about this, because this request is pure, tender, loving vulnerability and intimacy. Upon receipt of such a request, I shall immediately resolve to entrust myself completely to them, and to answer fully voluntarily, sincerely, and wholeheartedly, "Yes, I will!" Of course my "current" life will be completely turned upside down, but with love, honesty, sincerity and openness all this will be shaped and shaped in the right way..... . Really, just imagining that a couple could ever make such a loving offer to me makes me really embarrassed. A person must simply dare to entrust himself to something so tender-loving, here just love rules itself ... . - Tom -
Because my parents went on holiday for a week immediately after my graduation, I'm considering how I should approach this. After weighing all the pros and cons, I decide to do the following: I will be Dr. Call Kapadia herself today, and let her know that my answer to her request is a voluntary, sincere and heartwarming "yes". The more I try to visualize her request, the more I am gripped by a kind of heartwarming love (sorry, I can't describe it any other way!). When I call her, she answers almost immediately. I can practically see her smile and genuine joy (as well as that of her loving husband!) "through the phone". dr. Kapadia tells me that I don't have to do anything to be their daughter for good (if I didn't want to, she would have given me a "reverse pill".). After a bit of chatting, we agree that I will explain to my parents immediately afterwards, what happened, and why I made this choice. And now the hardest part begins..... It takes me many hours of texting and phone calls, but in the end my parents understand my choice. They also understand that my love for them has in no way diminished, I will also continue to regard them as my parents at all times. After the return of my parents we fall silently into each other's arms, both my parents and I shed the necessary tears of emotion. The next day I call Dr. Kapadia asked if we can visit her and her husband, and she invites us immediately. The five of us discuss our joint, connected future. We decide that I immediately move in with Dr. Kapadia and her husband will take, and together we move all my stuff (excluding my men's clothing, I already have a little bit of women's clothing, but will have to expand that wardrobe a lot!). In the evening, around seven o'clock, we are ready and decide to eat in an Indian restaurant (we are really tired and have no desire to cook at all!). Afterwards we go together to my new home, where we say goodbye to each other. "Mom, Dad," I say, "this isn't goodbye forever, we still live in the same city and can still visit each other regularly, which I certainly will! born to you, and raised so lovingly by you, otherwise I would never have been able to make this unique life choice." Then we hug and hug each other one last time, after which my "first" parents leave. I watch them until they are out of sight, letting my tears of emotion run wild. My "second" parents embrace me warmly, and take me in between them. I'm getting ready to go to bed, because tomorrow is going to be a busy day, after all my things have to find their own place in my new home. Soon I lie for the first time in my new "own" bed, my parents wish me good night and soon I drift away into a deep, dreamless sleep, from which I wake up the next morning, completely filled and enveloped in and by a heartwarming love. who envelops me like a beneficent cloak. Moved, I start the first day of my new life, as Siri Maria Kapadia ..... . - Tom -
Good grace, this is a really special, tender and loving story. To such an exceptionally loving and intimate request from such a couple I could only answer in one way, and no I do not need time to think about this, because this request is pure, tender, loving vulnerability and intimacy. Upon receipt of such a request, I shall immediately resolve to entrust myself completely to them, and to answer fully voluntarily, sincerely, and wholeheartedly, "Yes, I will!" Of course my "current" life will be completely turned upside down, but with love, honesty, sincerity and openness all this will be shaped and shaped in the right way..... . Really, just imagining that a couple could ever make such a loving offer to me makes me really embarrassed. A person must simply dare to entrust himself to something so tender-loving, here just love rules itself ... . - Tom -
ReplyDeleteBecause my parents went on holiday for a week immediately after my graduation, I'm considering how I should approach this. After weighing all the pros and cons, I decide to do the following: I will be Dr. Call Kapadia herself today, and let her know that my answer to her request is a voluntary, sincere and heartwarming "yes". The more I try to visualize her request, the more I am gripped by a kind of heartwarming love (sorry, I can't describe it any other way!). When I call her, she answers almost immediately. I can practically see her smile and genuine joy (as well as that of her loving husband!) "through the phone". dr. Kapadia tells me that I don't have to do anything to be their daughter for good (if I didn't want to, she would have given me a "reverse pill".). After a bit of chatting, we agree that I will explain to my parents immediately afterwards, what happened, and why I made this choice.
ReplyDeleteAnd now the hardest part begins..... It takes me many hours of texting and phone calls, but in the end my parents understand my choice. They also understand that my love for them has in no way diminished, I will also continue to regard them as my parents at all times. After the return of my parents we fall silently into each other's arms, both my parents and I shed the necessary tears of emotion.
The next day I call Dr. Kapadia asked if we can visit her and her husband, and she invites us immediately. The five of us discuss our joint, connected future. We decide that I immediately move in with Dr. Kapadia and her husband will take, and together we move all my stuff (excluding my men's clothing, I already have a little bit of women's clothing, but will have to expand that wardrobe a lot!). In the evening, around seven o'clock, we are ready and decide to eat in an Indian restaurant (we are really tired and have no desire to cook at all!). Afterwards we go together to my new home, where we say goodbye to each other. "Mom, Dad," I say, "this isn't goodbye forever, we still live in the same city and can still visit each other regularly, which I certainly will! born to you, and raised so lovingly by you, otherwise I would never have been able to make this unique life choice." Then we hug and hug each other one last time, after which my "first" parents leave. I watch them until they are out of sight, letting my tears of emotion run wild. My "second" parents embrace me warmly, and take me in between them. I'm getting ready to go to bed, because tomorrow is going to be a busy day, after all my things have to find their own place in my new home. Soon I lie for the first time in my new "own" bed, my parents wish me good night and soon I drift away into a deep, dreamless sleep, from which I wake up the next morning, completely filled and enveloped in and by a heartwarming love. who envelops me like a beneficent cloak. Moved, I start the first day of my new life, as Siri Maria Kapadia ..... . - Tom -